The adviser I met with was so understanding and nonjudgemental. We looked at our income and out goings and I was given some advice to talk through with my partner. What I really appreciated was the offer of a catch up in 6 months time to see where things were at and if we needed anymore support.
Knowing that there was someone on my side, showing me that things would be OK, took away a lot of my anxiety. Since then we have moved forward and continue to do so.